Kate and I had so much fun planning her 4th birthday party! This was the first year that she had some definite opinions on how she wanted to celebrate her birthday and I loved party planning with her!
G and I wanted Kate to choose her own birthday party location this year. We gave her a few options of some of her favorite play places and she chose Pump It Up – an indoor party place featuring gigantic, fun-filled inflatables, including bouncy houses, slides, and obstacle courses. Kate loves going there for their open playtime, but as we soon found out, their party packages are phenomenal!
Once our location was set, it was time to choose a theme. One of Kate’s many loves is pajamas. She’d happily wear them all day long if we let her (sometimes we do) and “pajama day” at school may as well be a national holiday in her book. When I rattled off a variety of theme ideas for this year’s celebration she jumped at the idea of making it a pajama party. A few days later she informed me she wanted polka dots (one of her other loves) for her party, too.
I loved Kate’s “Polka Dot Pajama Party” theme, and my wheels were quickly spinning with ideas! I wanted the details to be a surprise for Kate, but along the way she chimed in with additional thoughts that I was happy to make happen, including polka dot balloons and a cake instead of cupcakes. One of my favorite ideas from Kate was when she asked for a birthday crown. (“Not a tiara – a crown.”) She sat on my lap as we browsed Etsy, and much to my amusement she chose the biggest, most decorated crown I could find (plus a headband to wear as an accessory during jumping when I told her her crown wouldn’t stay on).
With my almost-4-year-old’s loves, ideas, and opinions in mind, it was time to make it all happen!
I dressed each of the two kids’ tables to look like beds:
One of my favorite details of the party were these personalized pillowcases I made and placed at each child’s spot for them to take home as their party favor:
Polka dot placemats and water bottle labels added to the colorful party theme:
Any guesses on the birthday girl’s favorite color?
The desserts table, covered with a polka dot bedspread and pillows, held polka dot cookies in doll beds, cake pops with polka dot sprinkles, and a polka dot cake:

Matching doll beds added to the pajama party theme and made the perfect resting spot for polka dot cookies!
With the room all set up, it was play time!
In addition to all the inflatable fun, the kids also got airbrushed tattoos:
And some of the adults did, too!
After about 45 minutes of playtime in the first room, the kids got decked out in glow bracelets (the birthday girl got a special glow wand and glow-in-the-dark shirt) before they headed into the second play room for a black light party (think preschool rave) filled with even more inflatable fun!
The 2nd party room also featured kids karaoke! One of my favorite parts of the night was hearing Kate singing her two favorite songs along with her friends:
After another 45 minutes of playtime in the 2nd play area it was time to head to the party room for food and goodies! Of course the party room had (what else?) an inflatable chair – the perfect spot for a picture of the birthday girl in her party crown and skirt:
A look at the party room, packed with pajama’d kids and parents:
Kate and two of her best friends from school, Bella (left) and Gwen (right):
Stealing the birthday girl for a couple of quick family pics!
It was such a fun and playful night with lots of laughter and so many wonderful friends! The kids (and many of the parents, too!) all loved being able to come to the birthday party in their pajamas to play. It also worked out well considering our party was on a Friday night, so the kids could all go home, brush their teeth and go straight to bed – including this tuckered out cutie:
I’ll be doing a follow-up post on the “The Making of Kate’s Polka Dot Pajama Party” soon! In the meantime, please let me know if you have any questions about any of the decorations or party details!
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LOVE the party! I’ve been waiting to see what you did for Kate’s 4th. Your parties are so awesome.
Thank you so much, Crystal!!
Great job, Dusty! We have a similar party & play place here in Lexington (KY) that Anna loves, and I’ve imagined how I would decorate it for a birthday. You’ve given me some great ideas as as usual!
I’m so happy to hear it, Carla! This was the first time we’ve had KPR’s birthday at a “party place” and whoa, it was nice! They really help you out and take some of the pressure off. I hope you have a similar experience for Anna’s next birthday party!
What a cute way to make a fun party!!! I love it! All the colors and THAT CAKE! OMG!
Thank you so much, Shannon!
You throw the best birthday parties! I loved the movie theater idea, but I think the pajama party takes the cake! Monogrammed pillow cases as favors – genious!
Thank you so much, Diana! Those suckers got me to sit down at a sewing machine for the first time in 20 years, and were time-consuming as heck, but I LOVED doing them and seeing how excited the kids were to receive them. Totally worth it!
You are amazing. What you can accomplish, while still working full-time, somehow inspires me instead of making me hate you. Well played, D. Well played.
Can’t wait to hear the details. I’m especially intrigued by the polka dot cake.
LOL! Thank you for not hating me, Julie! Full disclosure: I was off of work for most of this week, and I smuggled in a glass of wine in my coffee thermos the night of the party – I’m not as pulled-together as you might think, hahaha!
So freaking cute!!! I love everything you did!
And now I definitely have to check out Pump It Up! once my daughter is old enough (she just turned 12 months). It looks really fun!
Thank you so much, Kate! Pump It Up is one of our favorite places for drop-in play – especially in the winter! I hope your little girl loves it as much as Kate does!
You are an amazing Mother…..You deserve Mother of the year in my book.
What an awesome party…..I want a piece of that cake 😉
You are so sweet, Debbie – thank you! One slice of polka dot cake, coming right up.
Girl, you have talent. Plain and simple. The creative ideas you come up with are just amazing. Stuff I’ve never seen before and never would have thought of. Pinning.
Thank you so much, Kim! I still remember seeing pics from Henry’s 1st birthday party and LOVING all of YOUR amazing ideas!!
Perfect timing, girl. Planning my daughter’s 3rd birthday right now with a pancakes/pajamas theme. Dying to see the invitations you went with for Kate’s, if you wouldn’t mind sharing!! Love the polka dots. I think my Audrey will LOVE all of the VERY ORIGINAL ideas I come up with (steal from you).
Thanks Stephanie! On the invitations front…gotta admit – I went with the good ol’ evite. Nothing fancy there, haha. And please, steal away! Most of my ideas were inspired by things I’ve seen online that I just put my own spin on, or flat-out copied (look for links coming in the “making of” post!). IMO we’re all just one big incestuous family of internet ideas and good intentions.
I have been reading your blog for awhile and have never commented before. I am in LOVE with this theme. Cutest party ever! I just got done doing a blue and green alligator 1st birthday party using my son’s Pottery Barn Kids bedding as the inspiration and I had so much fun planning it (thanks to lots of northern Indiana snow days I was able to make all of my ideas come to life). You have the best ideas- so unique, I will be filing this one away, right after I make my homemade cleaning products!
I am already picturing this party with a boy in mind! Thank you for sharing all of your fabulous ideas. I love seeing working moms still embrace their crafty and creative sides for the good of their families! It can be hard, but totally doable…I can’t wait for my little man to be old enough to get creative with me!
Thank you so much, Angela! Your blue and green alligator 1st birthday party sounds spectacular! How creative!!
Hi There, how did you make the polka dots inside the cake?
Hi Amanda! I’ll be posting a “making of” post soon – stay tuned!
I love, love, love your birthday ideas so much! I have a 1 1/2 yr old & an almost 9 yr old, both girls! I find ways to use you ideas with my own twist and find that I can use them for both girls even though their ages are spread out and Kate is kind of right in the middle! I can’t wait to see your “making of” Kate’s 4th birthday! Just checking that I haven’t missed it!
Thanks for all you do!!!
This is adorable, I’m planning my daughters 3rd birthday in this same theme next month. We are doing polka dot and chevron. I love the tables you did, did you use sheets for all of it? It’s layered a couple times I couldn’t tell if every layer was sheets or not. Thanks
Thank you, Latoshia! Yep, I used flat sheets for the table coverings – both underneath and on top. Good luck with your little girl’s party!
Your setup is so cute. How did you make the placemats under the plates? Thanks so much.
Hi Willow! The polka dot placements under the plates are 12″ sheets of card stock that I cut into circles. Super easy!